Before the I do’s, let’s get clear on marriage.

We often get to the space of engagement in the relationship without going through all the factors that will need some attention to sustain a long term marriage. These unspoken conversations can lead to challenges in the relationship. There are some common topics that must be addressed prior to the wedding to help increase the likely hood of a happier ever after.

How will you and partner manage money in the household? What will it look like for spending and saving? The idea of talking money can be an uncomfortable conversation but it’s vital to get on the same page regarding how bills will be paid, financial goals will be developed, and how you address challenges with finances if those issues arise.

What is your definition or expectation of a wife or husband or partner? Don’t assume your partner has the same expectation of what they need from their partner in the relationship. Gender role expectations are one of the primary disconnects for marriages. So if you feel like your partner should be the person to fix things around the house or dump the trash, these expectations need to be verbalized and your partner should agree with those expectations.

Additional topics will include, raising children, having pets, blended families, caring for aging loved ones, sexual needs, intimacy, continued connection, and more. Premarital Counseling is typically short term are between 8-12 sessions within a 3 to 6 month time frame. If you are recently married but locating challenges, premarital counseling can be scheduled as well.